Doorway 8: Sex, Death & Rebirth

As we enter Doorway 8 we turn up the intensity. This house corresponds to the sign of Scorpio, ruled by the planet Pluto, Lord of the Underworld. This is where we address our relationship to transformation. Doorway 8 is where we share resources, alchemically change ourselves through healing, and our relationships become sexual. This is where we die to our old selves and are reborn. This is the house of the occult, where secret knowledge is shared. The 8th Doorway is about inheritance and taxes, too.

We cross the map, from the explorations of personal money and values, in Doorway 2, to Doorway 8 where we consider our relationship to other people’s money, and resources that are shared, whether in a marriage, business partnership or inheritance. This house is about taking the personal resources we have and making more of them, through investments, for example. This is also where we find overlooked resources that have been neglected or abandoned and restore them to value again, as in antiques or old houses.

They say death and taxes are the only sure things in life and the 8th House is where we find them both. Many of the topics in this house are not discussed in polite company. Some of these topics are considered off-limits because we were taught they are shameful. Some of them are complex, and those who don’t know what we know just wouldn’t understand.

This house includes the ways in which we transform and become more powerful.


Quotes are a great way to explore your beliefs, thoughts, and impressions. They can expand your perspective and clarify your inklings. Here are some quotes on sex, death, and rebirth to support you in considering what aspects are ready for an upgrade. You can also use these quotes to do free flow writing and see what arises.

Scared and sacred are spelled with the same letters. Awful proceeds from the same root word as awesome. Terrify and terrific. Every negative experience holds the seed of transformation.  Alan Cohen

Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.  Oscar Wilde 

The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world.   Marianne Williamson

Questions to Explore

Take a moment to sit with the following questions. You may want to journal on them or have a discussion with a close friend. You can also just sit with the question for a bit and allow your thoughts to arise of their own accord. Sometimes asking a powerful question is enough to create a shift.

  • In what ways have you died to your old self?
  • What do you know that other people don’t understand?
  • How have you benefitted from sharing your resources with others?


Scientific Enquiry into Rebirth is Quite Possible